Intentional Divorce Insights

 
 
Does my state have alimony?

While divorce ends a marriage, the financial relationship between you and your ex does not just end. Whether you are dealing with child support or alimony, the financial relationship can go on for many years and, in some cases, may be permanent. 

In many marriages, one spouse earns more than the other. In case of a divorce, the earning...

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5 Divorce Myths to Stop Believing (And What to Know Instead)

When going through a divorce, you hear a lot of myths. Unfortunately, because you may be hearing the same ones repeated from a few sources, it can seem like they’re more truth than myth. These proclamations of how things “always are” or “never are” can be terribly scary, too. In a time when you’re already...

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Divorce Financial Decisions: Finding Clarity In the Midst of Chaos

Navigating divorce financial decisions can be an overwhelming experience, especially when emotions run high and uncertainty abounds. The other day, I had a conversation with a woman who was deeply concerned about the financial aspects of her divorce. The responsibility of making sound financial choices was foreign to her, as her soon-to-be...

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5 (More) Things I Wish I Knew Before My Divorce

The time before your divorce is full of anticipation. It’s also full of lots of questions and uncertainty. If you’re anything like me, I wasn’t sure where to turn to find answers. The reality is that everyone’s experience is unique, although the general themes of what to prepare and what you should know before your...

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3 Things Divorced Parents Need to Plan for the College Transition

It doesn’t matter if you’re married or divorced, different people have different ideas about how to transition their children into adults. While you may be in favor of providing full financial support, your co-parent may have other ideas. For that matter, even different states’ laws handle the transition to adulthood...

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What You Need to Know about Health Insurance and Divorce

The issue of health insurance comes up in many of my cases as it can be a huge added expense post-divorce. You can’t stay on someone’s health insurance when you get divorced, but no one talks about the things you need to know and options that are available to you. For instance, what do you do when your child is no longer on child...

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