Welcome to the Intentional Divorce Solutions Blog

If you're navigating divorce or rebuilding your life afterward, you're in the right place. This blog offers expert advice on the financial aspects of divorce, including asset division, budgeting, retirement planning, and avoiding common financial mistakes. Our goal is to help you gain clarity, protect your future, and feel empowered as you move forward.

Whether you're just starting the divorce process or adjusting to your new normal, explore our articles for practical tips, real-life strategies, and support from professionals who understand what you're going through.

 
The Most Common Financial Mistakes in Divorce (And How to Avoid Them) certified divorce financial analyst debt dividing assets in a divorce financial planning house in a divorce preparing for divorce property division in divorce retirement accounts in divorce taxes

After more than 20 years of working with divorcing clients as a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, I have seen a lot. I have sat across the table from women who were sharp, capable, and completely blindsided by the financial consequences of decisions they made during their divorce. Not because the...

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How to Refinance Your Home as Part of Your Divorce Financial Settlement debt house in a divorce preparing for divorce

There are many factors to consider when putting together a financial settlement agreement, but one of the things that has come up recently among my clients has been refinancing your house as part of your divorce financial settlement

There are two main things to consider when agreeing to anything,...

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How to Keep Your Divorce from Destroying Your Credit debt

Divorce can significantly impact your life in many ways.  One often overlooked area that divorce can affect is your credit score.  Credit bureaus do not report marital status and divorce itself doesn’t necessarily mean your score will drop.  Usually, your credit score is affected indirectly due to d...

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Keep the House in Divorce: 7 Steps to a Smart Decision certified divorce financial analyst debt dividing assets in a divorce financial planning house in a divorce

I stayed in my house when I got divorced. At the time, the housing market had declined so much that we had negative equity in our home. Selling our house would have put us in a worse financial situation than keeping it and we had three young children. Keeping them in the house gave them some stabi...

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How to keep your house in a divorce certified divorce financial analyst debt dividing assets in a divorce financial planning house in a divorce property division in divorce

If you are wondering how to keep your house in a divorce, you're not alone. A lot of my clients have sentimental attachments to their homes. You've made memories there. It's where you raised your family. You may have close relationships with your neighbors or other strong ties to the community.

Eve...

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Divorce and Your Mortgage: What You Need to Know Before You Refinance certified divorce financial analyst debt dividing assets in a divorce house in a divorce preparing for divorce property division in divorce

Editor's note: The mortgage lending guidance in this post reflects the expertise of a Certified Divorce Lending Specialist and covers principles that hold true regardless of market conditions. Specific figures such as interest rates and home values shift over time. Always confirm current qualificati...

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Debt and Divorce: Understand Your Liability for Shared Debt debt

Are you faced with debt and divorce?

Divorce can be scary but when you're faced with debt and divorce, it becomes even more complicated. Know that you are not alone. Many couples find themselves knee deep in debt and have no idea what to do with it in their divorce.  The best option for shared deb...

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