Here is a brief divorce mediation checklist to help you prepare for your first appointment.
Make a list of questions that you have for the mediator. Before agreeing to use the mediator, you and your spouse should have an opportunity to speak with them. You'll want to ask about:
Make a list of all of your concerns. You may not address them in your first appointment, but it's important to start writing them down. To keep yourself organized, try to cluster your concerns about a specific topic. For example, make a list of all the concerns you have about your shared parenting agreement separately from concerns you have about dividing retirement accounts. To get you thinking, here are some topics to consider:
Collect and organize all of your financial documents. Bring them with you to each appointment. Below is a list of documents to get you started (some may not apply):
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