How to Buy a Car After Divorce (Without Getting Ripped Off) with Katie the Car Lady

Season #6

In this episode, Leah Hadley welcomes Katie O'Toole Smith, also known as "Katie the Car Lady," to demystify the car buying experience—especially for those navigating big life transitions like divorce. Drawing on over 30 years of industry experience and her personal journey as a single mom, Katie shares how she empowers consumers to confidently approach car buying, avoid costly mistakes, and assert control over the process.

Key Takeaways: 

  • Katie O'Toole Smith's Backstory
    - How being a single mom led Katie to the car industry and inspired her consumer-first approach.
  • Why Car Buying Is Relevant During Divorce
    - Leah Hadley emphasizes why understanding the car buying process is crucial during divorce due to the financial and emotional stress involved.
  • Common Car Buying Misconceptions
    - Katie debunks myths about leasing, buying, and the supposed lack of transparency in car sales.
  • The Power of Pausing
    - Why it’s vital to take your time, do your due diligence, and not let pressure influence your purchase.
  • Steps to Prepare for Car Buying
    - Tips include making a checklist, knowing your overall budget (not just monthly payment), and narrowing choices to avoid overwhelm.
  • Used Car Dangers & Due Diligence
    - Risks in the used car market and why it’s so important to get vehicles checked independently.
  • Empowering Yourself Financially
    - Advice on self-advocacy, building your credit, and exploring financing options such as credit unions.
  • When to Buy During Divorce
    - Leah Hadley discusses the importance of timing your purchase in relation to your divorce proceedings and communicating with your attorney and (if needed) your spouse.
  • Katie O'Toole Smith's Unique, Stress-Free Approach
    - How her independent dealership provides personalized guidance, transparent pricing, and a welcoming, no-pressure atmosphere.
  • Remote Support & Free Resources
    - Katie outlines how she supports clients nationally and offers a free car buying guide on her website.

Resources Mentioned:

Connect with Katie O’Toole Smith:

Website: https://www.katiethecarlady.com/

IG: @katiethecarlady

TT: @clevelandcarlady

FB: Katie The Carlady

Connect with Intentional Divorce Solutions:

IG: https://www.instagram.com/intentionaldivorcesolutions/

LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leahahadley/

YT: www.youtube.com/@IntentionalDivorceInsights

Download our free divorce checklist at https://www.greatlakesdfs.com/divorce-checklist.